Offering hope to those on the path behind me

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God IS in the small things AND the BIG Things

Before going further with my story, I feel I should share a short background story.

During the summer of 2003 I had a good job and, in fact, had just been offered a promotion. I worked for a state agency with good benefits. The department that I worked in was about to start the “busy season.” Our department was responsible for consolidating financial information from all of the state agencies and presenting it in the Comprehensive Annual Financial Report for the State.

What that means is that as the state’s fiscal year came to a close in August, we started answering a lot of questions from other state agencies and helping them get the financial information ready to send to us.

Although what we did is not all that important, what is important is that from August through the end of March we were extremely busy and worked long hours. There were not many days off and while we did get a few days at Christmas and Thanksgiving off, there was no asking for extra time off. We understood that we got to enjoy our time off between April and July.

One day towards the end of July I was sitting at my desk when the phone rang. It was someone that I had worked with in a previous position and had not talked to since I left. He asked me if I would be interested in talking about a job opportunity.  The job was not posted, but when he heard about it, he thought he should reach out to me. Wow. That was flattering. Continue reading

I Want Off This Merry-Go-Round

A day and a half went by. Even though I was still at home recovering from surgery, we had hope.until the phone rang

Until the phone rang Friday around lunch time. It was the surgeon. My stomach fell. you know that feeling when you are riding a roller coaster and your stomach drops. Yeah, that feeling.

It is never good when the actual doctor calls you on the phone. If everything is fine, the nurse calls and tells you “Your results look good, see you at your next appointment.” You can even hear the smile in the nurse’s voice. But when the doctor calls….that is completely different.

I heard him inhale deeply before he said “I’m afraid I have bad news. You have cancer.” My housekeeper, who just happened to be working that day, could see the color drain from my face. I sat down in the nearest chair and waited for the rest of it. “I would like you to come in this afternoon to discuss your options.” Continue reading

Thrive in Stage 5

I’m in Stage 5

One of the most common questions for someone who has cancer is “How are you feeling?” While people ask this question out of concern or curiosity, it is not a question that can be answered quickly or easily.  This is usually a 20 minute conversation at a minimum if you really want to know the truth.

The short answer to that question will usually depend on which stage someone is in related to their diagnosis. Most likely they are rolling their eyes on the inside and thinking to themselves “Did they really just ask me that question?”

A cancer patient goes thru the same stages that you may associate with grief. And if you think about it, this makes perfect sense. Let’s look at each of the stages and the answers that you may hear from your friend or colleague that has been diagnosed with cancer:

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